tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3560454615555518661.post5251252025250762539..comments2024-03-01T01:09:26.541-06:00Comments on Dream big {then DO it}: If you've been ridiculed....that TOPS ladyhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08550479679200670967noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3560454615555518661.post-41531907240759713102012-03-02T11:33:35.507-06:002012-03-02T11:33:35.507-06:00My blog is about me. If people want to point out o...My blog is about me. If people want to point out other peoples flaws or issues, then make sure you label the blog as such.<br /><br />I may try and help someone in the comments or let them know what I did, but I do not believe in writing in my blog about someone else or coming across as someone who knows better.Bzybeehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16161524546589105064noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3560454615555518661.post-33042235334151798862012-03-02T09:37:26.521-06:002012-03-02T09:37:26.521-06:00I couldn't get into the comment section and I ...I couldn't get into the comment section and I know I piggybacking onto Jane's comments. I want her to know my comment isn't directed by her but to "That Tops Lady"<br /><br />I think it is so sad that we can't be honest with ourselves with our shortcoming in the fear of someone jumping on our weaknesses on THEIR blog. I thought most blogs were about oneself. No one is perfect. I sure haven't been this week and it helps to write about it. See it in black and white to break it down and see changes to make rather than fear ridicule. Keep being honest with yourself, make changes and move on. If we don't give up on ourselves like others do, we'll eventually get to where we want to be. Our opinion of ourselves is what counts and it's hard to see that when other people are clouding our view by being so negative. It good to receive some constructive criticism but there's a constructive way to dish it out.mensahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06402876465144504851noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3560454615555518661.post-60339435747744639442012-03-02T08:24:21.798-06:002012-03-02T08:24:21.798-06:00That's why I am careful on my blog not give hi...That's why I am careful on my blog not give hints to the blooger. I do not want to shame or ridicule any individual - but I do want to point out the insanity of the behaviors on my site - where people are trying to learn the difference. It is not about that person - it is about the behaviors and we have all had insane food behaviors or we wouldn't be actively loosing, maintaining or - God forbid- gaining our weight back.<br /><br />I find it does not help anyone who point to an individual. <br /><br />To your final sentence Keep Moving Forward - I would like to add - and be willing to change. There is no reason to go from here to there if I will still be the same when I get thereJane Cartellihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00655507125048588634noreply@blogger.com